Yesterday we decided it was time to move Ollie out of our room and in with Harry. This was not a spur of the moment decision; I have been discussing it with Luke, weighing up the pros and cons, and grilling every mum that I know who has children sharing a room for the last six weeks. I am really nervous about the whole process as if it does all go wrong, Ollie would have to come back in with us again as we do not have a spare room, which would be fine for now but a problem longer term. I also knew there was a good chance Harry would not be too keen on the change as last week I foolishly asked him if he would like Ollie to sleep in his room, to which he responded with a very strong 'NO, Harry room!'.
We eventually decided it was going to happen and that I should take Harry out for the afternoon while Luke did all the hard work of moving the cot beds in to position. After tea we took both boys up stairs for their bath and to show Harry the new sleep arrangements, we stood there in the doorway waiting for a reaction, he just looked that the two cots and said 'Ollie sleep there' laughed and ran off to the bathroom. This was a huge relief and so stage 1 was over and went well. After bath time we read stories as usual, the boys had warm milk and then we put them both to bed, slightly staggered, Ollie first then Harry, and to our surprise everything seemed to go well. Downstairs we sat petrified, nervous and practically in silence as we intently listening to the baby monitor, we were waiting for the inevitable but there was nothing, just silence as they both fell soundly to sleep. I spent the whole evening clutching the monitor, worrying and feeling strangely sad that my baby was to be no longer sleeping next to me.
I am however pleased to say that all went well and they slept through until 7.15 this morning without any issues.
Tonight seems to be following the same pattern and all I can hear is silence, but I am still sat here with the monitor right next to me. I am sure there will be lots of ups and downs but hopefully we have started a smooth transition, fingers crossed.